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We hope to bring healing and hope to you, to us, and to all of our collective children (even the one that lives deep inside of us still).
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Lizz & Esther / Deconstructing Mamas
Mar 254 min read
Essentially Good and Worthy of Love
At 21, my hair was falling out in huge clumps and patches, to the point where I started wearing a hat at all times to cover my bald spots...
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Lizz & Esther / Deconstructing Mamas
Mar 185 min read
You Will Always Belong
It starts so young.
We ask ourselves: Who belongs? Do we?
My heart broke as my five-year old came home from school one day in tears...
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Lizz & Esther / Deconstructing Mamas
Mar 116 min read
Parenting After Deconstruction
As we undergo the transformative process of deconstructing our faith, it gets super tricky with lots of challenges and opportunities.
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Lizz & Esther / Deconstructing Mamas
Mar 45 min read
Diet Culture & Extreme Religion
Instead of criticizing your body, imagine being compassionate towards your already good body.
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deconstructingmamas
Feb 194 min read
What about Music and Deconstructing?
What music has played a healing part in your deconstructing/evolving faith journey?
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deconstructingmamas
Jan 296 min read
The Biggest Lies Toxic Religion Tell Women
What lies have you been told? We believe a healthy view of women hopefully prioritizes respect, equality, and dignity.
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deconstructingmamas
Jan 156 min read
The Biggest Lie Toxic Religion Tells Parents
There are five overarching lies we've been taught about being a parent, with the first one being the foundation for the rest.
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deconstructingmamas
Jan 85 min read
I Will NOT Abandon Myself
I will not abandon myself on the altar of trying to impress some system or group that serves itself and thrives on me doing so.
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deconstructingmamas
Dec 4, 20234 min read
The Struggle (to reconnect with our bodies)
I grew up believing that my body was my enemy. All it wanted was to satisfy cravings that were selfish at best and ungodly at worst...
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deconstructingmamas
Nov 27, 20236 min read
I Might Be Wrong
My ultimate goal is that folks like myself who are asking questions about the Bible, can find the freedom to do that.
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deconstructingmamas
Nov 24, 20237 min read
Our Favorite Books for Kids and Adults
Here's a list of our favorite books (hint: that make perfect gifts) in this evolving faith (and also parenting) space. Enjoy!!
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deconstructingmamas
Nov 20, 20235 min read
My Love, God is Everywhere
God became a lover who is loved in return. We always say, “God is love." And love needs an object, an other, outside of the self.
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deconstructingmamas
Nov 13, 20238 min read
Deconstructing Hell
“What if I’m not one of the elect,” she sobs into her aunt’s chest, “what if God hasn’t chosen me and I never see my mommy again?"
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deconstructingmamas
Nov 6, 20235 min read
Liminal Space & Winter's Gifts
What is liminal space and why is it so important in our spiritual journeys?
Also, what gift does winter have for us, if any?
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deconstructingmamas
Oct 30, 20235 min read
Stories and Solidarity
Why does white privilege still exist? Why aren't more black voices heard and their stories told?
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deconstructingmamas
Oct 23, 20235 min read
From Constrictive to Expansive
I want my child to use her voice, speak her truth, and be her glorious, outgoing, aggressively-friendly, joyfully exuberant self.
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deconstructingmamas
Oct 16, 20238 min read
Deconstructing Grief
My universe feels as if it has imploded, my face is covered in tears, and I'm unsure of how to keep going. And that's okay...
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deconstructingmamas
Oct 9, 20233 min read
Your Body is a Revolution
My body was trying to communicate to me. I wouldn’t keep it up any longer. I needed to get out.
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deconstructingmamas
Oct 2, 20234 min read
Evolving to Survive
Now that I have children, I am doubling down on transformation of my pain over transmission of it.
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